MATTERS OF THE HEART: CULTIVATING SELF-LOVE

February is the month for lovers…and what better way to spend it than to harnessing the true power of loving ourselves. ❤️ Tomorrow, I have the honor of speaking for the largest, not-for-profit organization, Dress For Success (DFS). This organization holds a special place in my heart because they are committed to empowering women to achieve economic independence. They provide a network of support, professional attire and personal development. My presentation is on The True Power of Loving Yourself. It is part of the DFS series, Matter of the Heart. As I was preparing for my presentation, I began thinking about how the majority of my career revolved around the… Read More

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WHAT ARE YOU READING?

A while ago, I was shopping at my favorite grocery store, Whole Foods (a.k.a. Whole Paycheck 😂) After I finished shopping, I was walked up to checkout counter and put my groceries on the conveyor belt. With a huge smile, the cashier looked at me. I was expecting him to ask the question I normally get when I check out. “How are you today?” However, it shocked me when he said, “What are you reading?” This question caught me off guard. I have never had a cashier ask me that before. I was impressed. Although I’m used to the cashiers being cordial, I’d never had anyone ask me that question.… Read More

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TO THOSE AFFECTED BY CANCER

January 31, 2024 Today, I had an entirely different message to share with you, but this was put on my heart. I know this isn’t my typical message on LinkedIn but I have to follow my heartHere it goes… “YOU HAVE CANCER” are the 3 most feared words in multiple different languages. No one wants to hear them, however, it became my reality on October 8, 2009. That day is the birthday of my deceased sister, who happened to pass away from cancer ten years prior. I couldn’t believe I was hearing those words from my doctor. However, I didn’t just hear those three words. I heard, “YOU HAVE“YOU HAVE… Read More

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COMPANIONSHIP IS LIFE

January 24, 2023 “There is not enough celebration of companionship.” – Francesca Annie I LOVE DOGS! As a child, I grew up with them as pets. We had a german shepherd, doberman pinscher and an Affenpinscher named Gretta. All at different times, but they were a big part of my childhood. When I was 11 years old, Gretta was chased from my home by a cousin and I never saw here again. My heart was broken. I didn’t want to experience that pain again so I didn’t get another dog until I was grown and moved into my first home. I knew I wanted a toy dog and I found… Read More

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THE 1ST FOLLOWER

January 5, 2024 Leaders can only lead if they have people who are willing to follow. They need that first person to believe in their vision and be willing to follow where the leader is taking them. Once the first person steps up, it gives permission for others to follow as well. The role of the first follower is an underestimate leadership role. https://youtu.be/ti_uT3cYh_c

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7 TIPS ON HOW TO WIN IN LIFE

March 15, 2017 Last week, I won tickets to a musical concert from a local radio station. I was so excited because one of the performers is my favorite male R&B singer. However, this wasn’t the first time I’d won something from the radio station. Actually, I win quite often. I’ve won tickets to comedy shows, concerts, CDs, etc. Because of my success on the radio, people ask me, “How is it that you keep winning? What exactly are you doing?” I respond the best way I know how, “I keep winning because I keep participating.” I participate in many of the various contests they have. If they ask listeners… Read More

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NOT YOUR TYPICAL THANKSGIVING MESSAGE…

November 22, 2023 Hey, hey, hey! I was thinking… This message came to me as preparing my corn bread dressing this morning. https://youtu.be/oTerLNdaPz4 HAPPY THANKSGIVING! I hope you enjoy the day doing whatever it is you LOVE. And while you’re doing what you LOVE, lead with LOVE, too. ❤️ ‘Tis the season…

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BE THANKFUL

November 21, 2023 “Thankfulness is the beginning of gratitude. Gratitude is the completion of thankfulness. Thankfulness may consist merely of words. Gratitude is shown in acts.” – Henri Frederic Amiel Thanksgiving is approaching and many of us are salivating on the thought of all the yummilicious food we’ll be eating while fellowshipping with family and friends. Greens, candied yams, macaroni and cheese, green beans, dressing, sweet potato pie, cranberry sauce, etc….mmmm. Also, this time of the year reminds us give thanks to reflect on the things we are grateful for. As a reminder, being grateful isn’t something that should just be reserved for the 4th Thursday in November, we should… Read More

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BE SELFISH

November 16, 2023 “Be selfish, and I promise everyone will benefit.” – Alexis Jones “I’ll take ‘GUILTY’ for $100, Alex!” (Jeopardy reference) And I’m sure I’m not the only one who does. As someone who leans into nurturing others, I find myself more concerned with the needs and wishes of them than with my own. Being selfish is often seen as a bad thing. We’re taught from a young age that we should share with others, put their needs before our own, and always be thinking of others. However, there are times when being selfish is actually the best thing you can do for ourselves. We cannot forget to take… Read More

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